If I could give any advice to men out there tonight it would be two words: man up.
No seriously.
Technology in today’s world has made a man’s pursuit for a woman much easier. Think about it, you can fbook her by instant messaging her, sending her a message, commenting on a pic, etc. “Hitting” on a girl is easy because you can do it from the comforts of your home and still feel “safe.” With the click of a mouse you can let a girl know you think she is cute.
What about in the real world men?
I cannot tell you how many pointless texting conversations I have had with the opposite sex. I’m telling you these conversations go nowhere. They are light and brief and really don’t end up going anywhere in getting to know each other. I also have had so many empty promises to teach me how to do this, or we will go here I don’t even believe them anymore. It is so easy to say things you never intend on doing in text, or turning the conversation into a pointless flirt fest. So if you think a girl is cute then man up and get to know her. I promise you, texting is no way to get to know a person. Ask her out, don’t even call it a date if you don’t want to, but at least take some initiative to get to know her.
That is my rant for the evening. Whether you believe in dating or courting, stay away from the texting and strictly online flirting…it really goes no where. You think she is cute? Get to know her, the real her. I'm sure many girls have had false hopes when a guy starts "wooing" her and never intends to follow through.
About Me
- Meggie
- I'd like to say I'm a simple girl, but I don't think that at all. I'll try to sum myself up as best as I can. I love God with my whole heart, but the time ratio that is spent with Him, versus other things, I fail miserably. I rarely wear makeup. I'm prolly the messiest eater you have seen, but I do try at times to try to eat neatly. Most of the time that fails. I'm loud. But living in the dorms this semester have found in comparison, I am not loud at all. I tend to get very loud in conversations, but most of the time find myself loving quiet, mellow, me time. I have thee most dysfunctional family, then again who doesn't these days? Yet somehow I love the craziness. I'm a sucker about the idea of marriage, but want to be the pickiest person ever in choosing my husband. I like playing sports, but am usually the worst person on the team. ;) I'm probably the most indecisive person ever. I have the hardest time from what to wear to church to what to order off of the dollar menu. Indecisiveness is a daily battle. I find loving and forgiving easily.
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